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Dusting: The new way to get high.

     There's a new way to get high, and you could have it right next to your desk at home. They're designed to clean your computer but, if inhaled, these popular products have the potential to kill. It’s called "dusting" — the term comes from the cleaning brand "Dust Off" — and it has become a teenager’s new cheap and easily accessible high, despite a warning on the side of each canister. This form of inhalant abuse, “huffing,” has been around for years, but dusting is the more specific term associated with the use of cans of any common aerosolized computer keyboard cleaner that contains compressed gas.

     The high from the gas paralyzes the user for several minutes and gives a feeling of euphoria. Both dusting and huffing can result in damage to the brain, lungs, heart, kidneys and liver, and can cause death. In computer cleaning products, a freon type of gas, or fluorinated hydrocarbon, is the dangerous ingredient.

     Some retailers, like Staples and Wal-Mart, now restrict the sales of computer cleaners to buyers over 18 years of age, and many have placed warning labels on the top of cans.

Choking games

     The rush is the appeal of the choking game — or “space cowboy” or “cloud nine” or any of a dozen other names . Asphyxiation games have been around for many years, but a series of locally publicized deaths around the country over the last few years has raised awareness about this game. You would be surprised how many teens have participated in this game or at least have been present while a friend tried it.

      In the choking game, teens cut off air supply (in many different ways) causing them to approach fainting. Then right before they pass out they release the pressure. This makes the blood rush to the head very quickly, giving a temporary high. Teenagers are seeing the game on Internet sites like YouTube, and playing it in more threatening variations — like more often or alone with a rope.

      It was reported there were at least 40 deaths and 5 serious injuries from the game in the United States last year. The exact number remains uncertain because there has been little research, health professionals say, and because medical examiners have been quick in the past to rule suicide. Some adults might also dismiss the game as the slumber party goof it was in years past, when constriction to the point of death was virtually unheard of. This game is dangerous and should not be mistaken for fun.

Based of article in NY Times

Injuring yourself on purpose by making scratches or cuts on your body with a sharp object

     Injuring yourself on purpose by making scratches or cuts on your body with a sharp object — enough to break the skin and make it bleed — is called cutting. Cutting is a type of self-injury. It is more common among girls, but guys sometimes self-injure too. Teens may cut themselves on their wrists, arms, legs, or bellies. When cuts heal, they often leave scars or marks.
     People who injure themselves usually hide the cuts and marks and sometimes no one else knows.

Cutting is a physical release of overwhelming emotional stress. It is a way some people try to cope with the pain of strong emotions, intense pressure, or upsetting relationship problems. They may be dealing with feelings that seem too difficult to bear, or bad situations they think can't change. The pain releases endorphins that help soothe and clear the mind of built up anger and anxiety.
     People who cut may not know better ways to get relief from emotional pain or pressure.

If you know of a teen “cutter”, encourage other ways to cope with difficulties. The help of a mental health professional might be needed for major life troubles. For other tough situations or strong emotions, it can help put things in perspective to talk problems over with parents, other adults, or friends. Believe it or not, getting plenty of exercise can also help put problems into perspective.

     People who cut may not have developed these skills. When emotions don't get expressed in a healthy way, tension can build up — sometimes to a point where it seems almost unbearable. Cutting may be an attempt to relieve that extreme tension. It's a confused way of feeling in control.

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/cutting.html

More Girls Becoming Gamers

     When you think of gamers, you might imagine a group of high-energy boys sitting around a video game console in the basement. It may surprise you to know 38 percent of all gamers are now female.

     They play video games that involve everything from street fighting to shoot em' up car races, poker to brain busting puzzles. They even compete in tournaments. Yet another stereotype has been broken. Watch for more girls to be interested in video games.

GIRLS KISSING GIRLS

      It seems as of late in the teen world a new fad has surfaced that pushes the envelope: Girls kissing girls. Most times it is not preceded by an actual attraction to other females or struggles with lesbian thoughts, instead it is fueled by the desire to attract boy attention. You’ve probably seen it or heard about it in scenes of popular movies or lyrics of popular songs. It’s the new way to add something unpredictable and somewhat taboo to entertainment.
     It seems that as far as sexuality is concerned the bar is raised to a new level to attract a shock value. And it’s been shown to young girls that many males fantasize about being sexual with more than one girl at the same time. Teens are very affected by media and often put into practice what they see. Girls will kiss each other in front of guys to see their reaction and to play off of their attraction to them. It makes them feel sexy and desirable.

This obviously is unhealthy behavior. First of all the word of God tells us to be faithful to one spouse of the opposite sex. This fad encourages bisexual tendencies, having more than one partner, and using sexuality to get attention and self worth. Whether or not your teen has participated in such a trend, they are definitely seeing it on national TV and possibly being influenced that this type of behavior is acceptable or at the very least entertaining.

Modest is Hotest

     Parents are in luck! Fashion is ever changing and so influential on our young girls but for whatever reason modest apparel is surfacing. Not only are the new styles covering, they are popular and attractive. Most teens love to be up to date with the latest clothes, and the last couple of seasons have been very promising for parents and teens to be happy. Long board shorts, knee-length skirts, and capri's are totally “in” this season.

     Even with the very mini skirts being so popular, we’re saved by leggings making a come back! As for above the waist, layering tank tops and other shirts that would normally be very revealing is the latest fashion look. So moms and dads, embrace this fashion miracle and start shopping!


Graphic Novels

     The new literary craze is graphic novels. These books use the pictures and dialogue balloons of comic books to tell sometimes sophisticated stories in book form. They are one of the fastest growing sectors of the publishing industry, reaching $250 million in sales last year. Graphic novels have also made their way onto the big screen. (Sin City & 300)

     These novels have a wide appeal to both teens and young adults. Some concerns have been raised about the adult content found in these novels. Many graphic novels contain provocative sexual images, cursing, and graphic violence. Although the novels that contain sex and graphic violence claim not to be intentionally aimed at youth, they still have a certain youth appeal due to their comic book similarities. As graphic novels continue to grow in popularity make sure that you check out the content of each novel before approving it for your teen. Just because it looks like a comic book doesn't necessarily mean it is harmless.


BLING BLING

     For a long time now the hip-hop culture has popularized spending large amounts of money on gaudy pieces of jewelry (aka bling) from diamond crusted necklaces to Rolex watches. Spending money on fashion accessories has become a hip-hop must. The newest addition to the “bling” family is known as a “grill”- and it’s not something you cook on. A “grill” is a cosmetic dental apparatus worn over the teeth. Grills are made of metal (often silver, gold, platinum) and are sometimes inlaid with stones. Since this trend is on the rise, retailers have found ways to make affordable grills so teens can imitate the hip-hop lifestyle.

What exactly is Emo?

     No, its not an animal or a Sesame Street toy. You have probably seen teens dressed in this new style around their school, church, or the mall and never really paid much attention. Now you are about to get your emo education. Emo is more than a way to dress, for many it has become a way of life. When referring to a person's personality and attitude, most definitions of emo hold that an "emo person" is open about their emotions, sensitive, shy, introverted, broken-hearted, glum, and often quiet.
     Emo personality is often connected with writing poetry or listening to music, which addresses confusion, depression, loneliness, and anger, all resulting from the world's inability to understand their life.
Emo’s are generally emotional boys who wear their feelings on their shoulders. The term emo became popular through the development of a musical genre. Emo music is understood to mean "rock music with emotionally-based lyrics or effect." This has been made popular by such bands as Fall Out Boy, Dashboard Confessionals, My Chemical Romance, and Panic! At the Disco.
     The
emo fashion is marked by by tight jeans (often made for girls) on males, long fringe bangs often brushed to one side of the face, hair dyed black, straightened hair, tight t-shirts which often bear the names of rock bands, studded belts, belt buckles, Chuck Taylor All-Stars, Skate shoes, or other black shoes - often old and beaten up - and thick, black-rimmed glasses. Many critics believe that this is a trend that will soon pass like boy bands in the 90’s, but only time will tell. For now there are many teen boys who fit the emo mold.

What do I do if my teen fits the Emo mold?

     First of all, don't freak out. Try to see if there is more going on here. Sometimes teens simply want to fit in and they have taken on this look or attitude because it is the “cool thing”. Or possibly they can genuinely relate to the feelings being conveyed by this lifestyle. If that is the case you should know that a lot of teens that are considered to be emo battle with low self-esteem and depression. Not all, but a lot of the emo message focuses on depressing experiences and hopelessness of life. If your teen is into this then there is a possibility that they may feel the same way.


Center of the “Youniverse”

     In 2006 Time Magazine named “you” the person of the year. In no time flat modern technology has made it possible for anyone to become a star. All you need is a video camera and internet access. Youtube and many other video sharing sites have made ordinary couch potatoes into today’s real reality stars.
     In fact as the popularity of
youtube and other such sites have increased former teen TV powerhouses such as MTV, VH-1, and other popular teen programming have seen a significant decrease in their teen demographic. The sudden popularity of home videos on demand must be watched carefully. Unlike T.V. the content in these videos are not rated or edited and many times contain unnecessary footage of teens making poor decisions.
     However, you must remember that relationships are very important to this generation. Sites such as Myspace have been so popular because it has met some needs with young adults. Teens are looking for ways to maintain friendships and express their deepest feelings. Perhaps there is a reason your teen has shown an interest in this fad. Online journaling sites can be a scary thought, but when done under the proper boundaries they can be a positive thing.